Are you still WAITING??
Your plans are never guaranteed, the unknown can bring a lot of scary things, and as individuals it’s important to remember that you have a place in this world.
We will be talking about the year of 2020 for the rest of our lives AND it will be taught in our schools in history class. But how are we talking about it right now, in the year 2021? And how are we choosing to move forward with the power of 2021?
What 2020 Taught Us
One of the most important things I have learnt when it comes to reflecting on the past, is that we need to be willing to see things as a lesson and not just the challenge that it was. When you look back on 2020 are you still focused on all the difficulties it brought? Are you still holding onto anger because of everything you lost? Are you blaming all the people around you for the decisions they made and how it impacted your life?
If you are TRULY ready to move forward, if you really want to step into your power, if you desire to live your dreams and are tired of waiting then there is something YOU need to change, and it needs to be changed now!
I know life is hard. I know you experienced challenges and you may still be struggling to find solutions. I know it feels like a never ending black hole and as the darkness seeps around you the light seems further and further away.
When we focus on the HARD, the PROBLEM, and the DIFFICULTIES, we stop ourselves from seeing our own capabilities, strengths and courage to keep moving forward.
The solution will never come if you only focus on the problem.
Now is the time to step back and see what 2020 taught you. Let me break down the key lessons I took away from last year and I am choosing to carry with me as I move forward into the Power of 2021.
Having a community where you feel loved, heard & supported is the answer to almost all of your desires.
Listening to your own needs in each moment will build a stronger connection with yourself so you can create a life you enjoy living.
Just because it worked for someone else doesn’t mean it’s for you.
Everyone’s perspective is different and we are here to learn from each other.
Patience is about not rushing to conclusions and instead carrying grace with you wherever you go.
Trusting in yourself makes life a lot easier.
GO WITH THE FLOW & stop trying to force things that aren’t working.
The basis of these life lessons all come back to deconditioning myself from beliefs & practices that have been instilled in me since I was born. I am remembering that just because society created this box generations ago, does not mean that I have to stay in this box to create a life I enjoy.
This is YOUR Personal Growth Journey
Life doesn’t have to feel as hard as it does right now. You don’t have to do it all on your own.
I am constantly sharing tips, wisdom, guidance & strategies around personal growth with the focus on mental & spiritual wellness, here on my blog, in my podcast, on social media & in my free community on Facebook.
If you are on your growth journey and looking for more guidance then check out the Personal Growth Blog , follow me on Instagram, join my free community Shifting Forward, or check out my podcast.
If you are ready to learn, heal & grow, but are scared to do it alone then know that I am here. If you are ready to dive deeper and are looking for personalized guidance & strategies for your life then know you are not alone. I offer one on one mentoring calls where we focus on your specific needs in this moment. Solo Sessions offer a quick 60-90 minute call filled with strategies and tools to put you on the next level of your personal growth. Meanwhile the 1:1 Monthly Mentoring focuses on more in-depth guidance and wisdom for your growth journey.
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Time to Live Outside the Box Society Placed Us In
2021 is asking us to step outside of the box that society placed us in. Now is a time to do things differently, to be different, to accept the blessings that can come from different directions. We don’t have to follow the track that our parents did just because; we don’t have to compare ourselves to our classmates & peers because we are of similar age; we don’t even have to create our standards & values based off our workplace because they told us so. It’s time to stop living for someone else and truly figure out what life means to you and how you choose to be in this life.
Now is your time. The power of 2021 lies in your hands. Change is up to you. Success & happiness comes from a space within you. In order to live your dreams & desires you need to go internally to determine where these dreams & desires are coming from. Are they coming from what society, your parents, or your peers have told you to dream & desire? Are they coming from your soul, your spirit, your being, and you feel deeply connected to these desires because they are part of your purpose?
In any moment when we question life, our purpose, our dreams, and our path, we need to remember that the answers may not come flooding in all at once. For this is a journey, it’s your journey. Each step of the way will bring more guidance, more clarity and more power for you to be the best you yet.
How Can We Create Our Desires
The start of all your questions always begin with… HOW?! Today I want to guide you along the path of how you can create your desires right now. The basis of this question lies within you, and you don’t even realize you are carrying the key to every question. My desires are going to be different than your desires because we are different people, different beings, here to live out a different purpose. So, taking the time to get clear on WHAT your desires are is the very first step. If there was no such thing as limitations then what would you desire for your life and how would it feel once you’ve reached these desires. The feelings are the most important part, because emotions & feelings are how we experience life.
Once you are clear on what your desires are and the feelings attached to these desires you can get started in living out these desires right now. Remember, feelings & emotions are how we experience life, so what can you do today to experience the same emotions that you’ve attached to your desires. If you can feel those emotions now, before you’ve even reached your desires then you are one step closer. Life isn’t about waiting to have the things, life is about living and being the person you want to be. Well, if you know how you want to feel when you have the things, then you know how to feel right now to be the person you desire to be. Does this seem out of order? Well, that’s because it is. You want to HAVE the thing so you can then BE the person you desire to be and I hate to break it to you, but this is not the way it works. Have you ever heard about millionaires who are never truly happy? It’s because they lived life out of order. They put their happiness on having the thing, rather than first creating happiness within. I am here to cut out a lot of wasted time for you trying to get the thing because the **SECRET TO LIFE** is first being the person you want to be, then you will attract all the things!
The Power of 2021
The power of 2021 is not in the waiting, it’s actually in the CREATING! Remember, this is your life, so how can you create the feelings you desire right now? How can you connect deeper to yourself to know what it is you desire? How can you step out of the box society has put you in?
2021 says, please use this moment, right now, and stop waiting for a moment in the future that you may never get to. Show up today, putting your needs first, sharing compassion with your family, creating moments of joy, leaning into inner peace, and letting go of all the worry & doubt that does not serve you.
2021 says you hold the power in your life. What are you going to do with this power?
It’s Your Turn
I can guide you on what questions to ask yourself, I can help bring clarity & guidance into your life, I can even point you in the right direction on where to focus your energy right now… AND… it all comes down to you. It’s your turn. It’s time to take action in a way that feels good to you. It’s time to rest before it’s too late. It’s time to learn from new perspectives. It’s time to dream big. It’s time to uncover the limiting beliefs that are blocking you from the growth you desire. It’s time to heal those past wounds. It’s time to CREATE THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS. I am here reminding you that it’s your turn. Your turn for blessings. Your turn for happiness. Your turn for success. Your turn for love. Your turn for abundance. Your turn for following your passion.
Everyone is going to give you reasons why it won’t work, or why you aren’t the person for the job. It’s not their job to lead you on your path. It’s your turn to stand up for what you believe in. It’s your turn to trust yourself & push past the naysayers. It’s your turn to believe in your worthiness.
Feeling Supported Along Your Path
Yes, it’s your turn. It’s also just as important to remember that you don’t have to do it all on your own. You are allowed to live your life differently from everyone else as long as it feels good to you AND you have a community of supportive beings who celebrate you each step of the way. For the longest time we were led to believe that our support system was our family, and we were born into the only support system we’d have. This is not true. Although some of us feel extremely supported by our families, others may feel outcast by their families & misunderstood by those who are meant to believe in you the most. Again, we are stepping out of the box society has put us in. If you do not receive the support you desire from your family, that’s okay, because there is a different support system out in the world waiting for you. You aren’t meant to do life on your own. Now is the time for you to step out of your comfort zone and start building connections in new ways. These new connections may lead to the support you’ve been desiring.
Are you needing help in this area? I have a beautiful supportive community online that I would love you to be part of. You can check out this free group on Facebook called Shifting Forward and join if you feel called to. Support can also be more than human support, it can include Spiritual support in the form of angels, ancestors, spirit guides & animal guides. I highly suggest you to build a practice of support in this way too. The last area of support can come from yourself. It’s easy to fall back into old patterns & behaviours, especially those like self-doubt, fear & worry. When you have tools and practices that remind you of the support surrounding you life becomes a lot easier. One of the go-to tools that I use for support is the 2021 Guidebook. This E-Book reminds me of the energy that surrounds me in each phase of life, so if I’m feeling tired, overwhelmed or lost I can easily learn from the external energy that is influencing me. Having different tools, resources, strategies & practices is how you can shift from feeling confused & uncertain into feeling supported with clear direction.
Remember, the Power of 2021 is reminding you that It’s Your Turn. So my question to leave you with is:
How are you going to make sure you are receiving the support you need in order to create all of your desires in your life?
I’m over here, always believing in you as you shift forward on your journey.
xoxo Sydney
